[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/proc-nezvladame-vychovu-deti-tak-jak-bychom-chteli\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/proc-nezvladame-vychovu-deti-tak-jak-bychom-chteli\/","headline":"Pro\u010d nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1me v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed, tak jak bychom cht\u011bli?","name":"Pro\u010d nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1me v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed, tak jak bychom cht\u011bli?","description":"V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b by bylo dobr\u00e9 si odpov\u011bd\u011bt na ot\u00e1zku, zdali jsme dostate\u010dn\u011b d\u016fsledn\u00ed ve v\u00fdchov\u011b, nebo podl\u00e9h\u00e1me n\u00e1lad\u00e1m a rozmar\u016fm sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. M\u00e1me stanoven\u00e1 ...","datePublished":"2025-03-06","dateModified":"2023-05-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4e6a74466e4227c12d5306875d08720cdfce3572213740db6f4a2e5e46e710ff?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4e6a74466e4227c12d5306875d08720cdfce3572213740db6f4a2e5e46e710ff?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tremas.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307159_w2374_t1518551476.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307159_w2374_t1518551476.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/proc-nezvladame-vychovu-deti-tak-jak-bychom-chteli\/","wordCount":606,"articleBody":"V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b by bylo dobr\u00e9 si odpov\u011bd\u011bt na ot\u00e1zku, zdali jsme dostate\u010dn\u011b d\u016fsledn\u00ed ve v\u00fdchov\u011b, nebo podl\u00e9h\u00e1me n\u00e1lad\u00e1m a rozmar\u016fm sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. M\u00e1me stanoven\u00e1 pevn\u00e1 pravidla nebo si je upravujeme, jak se n\u00e1m zl\u00edb\u00ed nebo zrovna hod\u00ed do p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti? Poj\u010fme se spole\u010dn\u011b zamyslet nad n\u011bkter\u00fdmi faktory a mo\u017en\u00e1 se m\u016f\u017eeme pou\u010dit z\u00a0chyb, kter\u00e9 d\u011bl\u00e1me.1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 D\u011bti se sna\u017e\u00ed ovl\u00e1dnout situaciDocela b\u011b\u017en\u00fd trik na\u0161ich d\u011bti\u010dek. Zkou\u0161\u00ed na\u0161i trp\u011blivost, kolik toho vydr\u017e\u00edme. Abychom si udr\u017eeli p\u0159irozenou autoritu, nesm\u00edme v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b p\u0159istoupit na jejich hru. Uvedu p\u0159\u00edklad. P\u0159ipravili jsme na\u0161\u00ed ratolesti sn\u00eddani, jenom\u017ee j\u00ed se zrovna n\u011bco na tom nel\u00edb\u00ed, tal\u00ed\u0159ek, hrne\u010dek, slo\u017een\u00ed na tal\u00ed\u0159i atd. Za\u010dne v\u0159\u00edskat, \u017ee chce n\u011bco \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e9ho a do\u017eaduje se sv\u00e9ho. V\u00a0r\u00e1mci zachov\u00e1n\u00ed klidu a tak\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e1 my\u0161lenky, aby n\u00e1s soused\u00e9 nepomluvili, se p\u0159izp\u016fsob\u00edme a p\u0159istoup\u00edme na jeho hru. Ov\u0161em, ani\u017e bychom si to uv\u011bdomili, d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159evzalo iniciativu a na\u0161e rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 autorita je jaksi pry\u010d. \u010casto takto v\u00edt\u011bz\u00ed v\u00a0obchod\u011b, na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b apod. Jedin\u00e1 rada zn\u00ed \u2013 nenech\u00e1vat d\u011bti, aby ovl\u00e1daly situaci.2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nikdy je v\u00a0jejich p\u0159\u00edtomnosti neomlouvejte, \u017ee jsou jen d\u011btiN\u011bkdy n\u00e1m dok\u00e1\u017eou p\u0159ipravit hork\u00e9 chvilky. Za\u010dnou zlobit a projevovat se na m\u00edstech, kde to pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed vhodn\u00e9. Ob\u010das se div\u00edme, kde se to v\u016fbec v\u00a0nich bere. Ztrop\u00ed sc\u00e9nu ve front\u011b, u l\u00e9ka\u0159e, na \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b\u2026. Pokud se k\u00a0tomu nezachov\u00e1me s\u00a0autoritou a nenapomeneme je, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b nevysv\u011btl\u00edme situaci, pro\u010d to mus\u00ed b\u00fdt takto a ne po jejich, prohr\u00e1v\u00e1me. \u010casto se toti\u017e obhajujeme slovy \u2013 v\u017edy\u0165 jsou to jen d\u011bti nebo to v\u00edte, to jsou holt d\u011bti. Tahle v\u011bta 100% zaru\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee se p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b bude situace opakovat a my brzo ztrat\u00edme nervy a trp\u011blivost.3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stanovte si doma jasn\u00e1 pravidlaD\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 m\u00edt jasn\u00fd \u0159\u00e1d, aby v\u011bd\u011blo svoje hranice, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b je bude cht\u00edt p\u0159ekra\u010dovat, aby zjistilo, co ho \u010dek\u00e1, ale my, jestli jsme hranice jednou stanovili, tak v\u00a0nich mus\u00edme b\u00fdt pevn\u00ed. Batolata a p\u0159ed\u0161kol\u00e1ci jsou mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b byst\u0159\u00ed, a jak poznaj\u00ed na\u0161i nejistotu, tak toho hned vyu\u017eij\u00ed. \u010castokr\u00e1t se jim toti\u017e v\u011bnujeme na \u00fakor sv\u00e9ho voln\u00e9ho \u010dasu. Hlavn\u011b ve\u010der, kdy\u017e maj\u00ed j\u00edt sp\u00e1t. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b n\u00e1s budou zkou\u0161et, \u017ee se jim je\u0161t\u011b nechce nebo maj\u00ed \u017e\u00edze\u0148 a podobn\u00e9 triky. Pokud budeme okolo nich b\u011bhat a sko\u010d\u00edme jim na jejich taktiku, tak bohu\u017eel p\u011bkn\u00e9 chvilky s\u00a0partnerem budou pry\u010d. Nestihnete se spole\u010dn\u011b pod\u00edvat na film nebo si jen tak popov\u00eddat v\u00a0klidu bez sv\u00fdch potomk\u016f.Bohu\u017eel na spr\u00e1vnou v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed neexistuje \u0161ablona, p\u0159esto mnoh\u00e9 m\u00e1me ve sv\u00fdch rukou my, rodi\u010de. Stanovme si pevn\u00e1 pravidla, bu\u010fme p\u0159\u00edsn\u00ed i na sebe, kdy\u017e je jednou stanov\u00edme, mus\u00edme si je obh\u00e1jit. A neposouvejme kol\u00edky hranic jen podle n\u00e1lady a brekotu na\u0161ich roztomil\u00fdch d\u011bti\u010dek. D\u016fslednost se rozhodn\u011b vyplat\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1me v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed, tak jak bychom cht\u011bli?","item":"https:\/\/www.tremas.cz\/proc-nezvladame-vychovu-deti-tak-jak-bychom-chteli\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]